The Sacredness of Hope

Oft hope is born when all is forlorn. J.R.R. Tolkien The Return of the King Dark was the night It chased so hard Wild storms thrashed Upon my soul Questions raged Answers unfound Prayers formed and argued aloud Christ stands Tears flow down A break of light A glow in […]

What is the Most Important Thing? He Tangata

What is the Most Important Thing? He Tangata

  I started my career in Mental Health support in a large old boarding that was a kind of halfway house for people needing quite intensive support. Hanging on the wall of the lounge was a wooden plaque with this Maori Proverb on it. He aha te mea nui? He […]

5 Ways that Jesus Helps with Thinking Ruts

5 Ways that Jesus Helps with Thinking Ruts

Do you have thinking ruts? Ways of thinking that you just can’t seem to get out of. It was a track that had been worn into the earth by hundreds of sheep plodding over the same piece of clay time and time again. As I child being raised on a […]

Nose to the Grindstone – Northland Adventure

If you put your nose to the grindstone rough, And keep it down there long enough, You will soon conclude that there are no such things, As a brook that babbles or a bird that sings. These three things will your world compose: Just you, the stone, And your ground-down […]

Subjecting your Thoughts to the Presence of P.A.P.A.

Some of my thoughts would scare you. If my thoughts were paraded across a silver screen then you would be aghast. Thoughts of love, pain, anger, lust, depression all dance across the screen of the mind. A couple of posts ago, I talked about lassoing those varmint thoughts. Grabbing hold […]

Time to Lasso those Varmint Thoughts

Time to Lasso those Varmint Thoughts

We all have thoughts that rumble on through the grey matter: some good and helpful, some not so good, and actually unhelpful. I know for me, some of my thoughts have a particular theme. If I could box them and categorize them, I would have multiple files of thoughts. Some […]

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How do You Respond When Someone Stabs You in the Back?

How do you respond when someone spreads rumors about you, gossips, lies, pretends to be your friend while really all they are doing is using and abusing you? A stab in the back. Perhaps they influence other friends to their side of the story. You’re having rotten tomatoes thrown at […]

Rewriting the Script–How to Change your Brain

Rewriting the Script–How to Change your Brain

I had heard the same thing over and over and over again from this person. Self-doubts, questioning, cynicism, fear all mashed together to be an ugly serving for the day. They had learned the script over the whole of their lives. Repeated it, rehearsed it, played it out on so […]

You really need an Encouragement Journal

You really need an Encouragement Journal

Life has ups and downs, but when you have an encouragement journal, you always have a place to go back to reset the heart I forget. Actually, my memory can be pretty bad. I have a ‘forgetta computer’ for a brain as someone has said. We all have a limited […]

God Looks Deeply Inside Of Us–Soul Talk

I have secrets I tell no one. I am not alone in this I am certain. I am sure you have them too. Things you have done have or that have been done to you. Fears, desires, longings, pains, and some things that you are not even consciously aware of. […]