A Wellness Path

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Change can feel like Being on the Wrong Side of the Road

Change can feel like Being on the Wrong Side of the Road

If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got. Henry Ford. To change, it may feel like you’re driving on the wrong side of the road. It all made sense. I began to understand how the brain changes and that to learn something new […]

For Mental Health You may need a Wire Brush

For Mental Health You May Need a Wire Brush

Something new had to happen, and it could, but it would take a wire brush to shift the bark. So we submit to the master gardener. As I came to winter prune this old rose, I said a prayer. ‘Creator God, guide me as I prune. As I cut and […]

"A conceptual image illustrating the 'inward curve' of the soul, representing the struggle of being locked within one's own thoughts and ego."

Incurvatus in Se: Breaking the Pull of Self-Centeredness

There is a self-centeredness in all of us, a turned or curved inwardness called incurvatus in se. But there is one who shows us how to break the gravity, the pull of the curve. Quick answer: Incurvatus in se is Latin for “curved inward on oneself.” It describes the gravitational […]

The Problem is Not the Problem

“The problem is not the problem. The real problem is much worse.” Sandy Burdick I can still see the look of abject horror on Alma’s face, and the dark brown eyes opened wide as I approached her. I was about to tell her that she was magnificent, and she was […]