Spiritual Growth

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Foggy forest path — cover image for blog post on healing before growth

Why Do I Feel Worse Before I Feel Better? The Ancient Path of Down Before Up

Feeling worse before better? Discover the ancient path of down before up. I once saw this very funny cartoon. The first image showed a nice ‘up and to the right’ graph displaying how we think life should work. Progress, easy, smooth, success and without any struggle or challenge. The next […]

The Ancient Path: Why the Narrow Way Is Still the Right One

There’s an ancient path — one worn into the ground over thousands of years, easy to trust because so many have walked it before you. I was watching a program on TV about elephants. The Elephant Queen. It tells the journey of a family of elephants in the African savannah, […]

"Finding a Lifeline in the Quicksand of Estrangement" on a maroon background. To the right, a photograph shows a female hiker struggling to crawl through thick, muddy water while wearing a heavy backpack, illustrating the metaphor of being stuck.

Finding a Lifeline in the Quicksand of Estrangement

Stuck in the quicksand of estrangement? Discover how one mother moved from the agony of ambiguous grief to a miraculous relationship renewal. This is a guest post by Peggy Phillips who wrote Coping with Ambiguous Loss by Estrangement After my son went no contact, the quicksand of estrangement engulfed every part […]

The Little Foxes That Spoil the Vine: Catching the Saboteurs of Change

Change is most fragile at the very beginning. If we can catch the little foxes that spoil the vine, the subtle saboteurs that kill new growth, the blossom has a chance to become a harvest. In this post: Why new change is so vulnerable The little foxes that spoil the […]