spiritual formation

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7 Steps to Help Those who Ruminate.

Sometimes I think I am like a cow. I ruminate over things, chewing my thoughts this way and that. Trying to extract something good out of them.  Much of my life I have worked on farms, I even have a University Degree in Agriculture. I humorously call this my first […]

Let's Rethink the Word 'Boundary'

Let’s Rethink the Word ‘Boundary’

I struggle with the word ‘Boundary.’ Not because I don’t believe in the concept of boundaries or because I don’t think they are important.  It’s just that the word ‘Boundary’ doesn’t convey any sense of relationship value. The word ‘boundary’ feels like it’s all about the one making the boundary […]

P.L.O.M. (Poor Little Old Me) Breaking Free from PLOM Overcoming the Cycle of Self-Pity

How to Break Free From Self-Pity and the Victim Mentality

It’s an acronym I learnt this week from All is Grace, Brennan Manning’s memoir. He was describing his time in a rehab facility for his alcoholism when he received feedback from his fellow alcoholics in a peer review worksheet. I SEE YOU USING THE FOLLOWING DIVERSIONS TO KEEP FROM DEALING […]