problem solving

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Little by Little How Small Steps Can Topple Your Biggest Giants

Little by Little: How Small Steps Can Topple Your Biggest Giants

  Stop feeling overwhelmed by life’s “giants.” Learn how small, intentional actions and a simple problem-solving sheet can reduce anxiety.   Do you ever feel that your problems are too huge to be solved? That the mountain is, or at least feels, unsurmountable. Past experiences can wire your brain to look […]

The Problem is The Problem - Not the Person

The Problem is The Problem – Not the Person

We all have problems, but we can over-personalise them. But the problem is the problem. Not the person. There is something sneaky about problems in that, over time, starting from being a little child, problems can morph and sneak into your thinking so much so that you see yourself as […]

Please. No Fixing, Advising, Saving or Straightening Out

Please. No Fixing, Advising, Saving or Straightening Out

If you want to hear the heart of another, then you need to still your own. Fixing, advising, saving, or straightening out will only stifle the emergence of true wisdom. We need to listen with questions.  Sometimes I want to tell some people to shut up and just listen. They […]

How to Help Others Solve Problems in 8 Steps

How to Help Others Solve Problems in 8 Steps

Problems! We all have them, and they can so often create incredible amounts of pressure and stress. A small problem for one person can seem like a mountain of stress for another. The problem can feel too big, and that there is no way of solving it. People also come to you with […]