Spiritual Growth

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God is Going against the Grain and it's Terribly Good

God is Going against the Grain and it’s Terribly Good

There is a grain or a pattern to our thinking that needs to change, but we are stuck, so God gently comes against the grain and changes it from the inside out. It goes against the grain of self-protection to let someone in, especially when we have been hurt. But […]

"A conceptual image illustrating the 'inward curve' of the soul, representing the struggle of being locked within one's own thoughts and ego."

Incurvatus in Se: Breaking the Pull of Self-Centeredness

There is a self-centeredness to ourselves, a turned/curved inwardness, incurvatus in se, but there is one who shows how to break the gravity, the pull of the curve. There is a pull on me all the time. On this page What is Incurvatus in Se? God Is Compassionate About Curves Going […]

Five Actions to Take when Someone Rains on Your Parade

Five Actions to Take when Someone Rains on Your Parade

Some people seem to like to rain on your parade, but we can learn how to hoist an umbrella and continue on. They couldn’t help themselves. Anything my friend did was negated. Any attempt at doing something special, creative, or different was criticized and smashed with harsh words. Sometimes an […]

You're Being Too Naked in Your Vulnerability vulnerable

You’re Being Too Naked in Your Vulnerability

They were too naked in their vulnerability. Too much too soon, but with careful listening, time, and respect, they began to feel deeply known. They had been too naked with their vulnerability. They thought they were safe with this friend, that what they shared wouldn’t be exposed. But it was […]